You will have to make sacrifice your happiness a little. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. However, if you are a Catholic guy dating a Mormon girl, then remember that her parents may be averse to it. She is in pretty deep and culture is a powerful force. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. I got married to for love and companionship, not to essentially be lonely with a lot of nice things and raise my children "as if" I were a single parent. She cried when you proclaimed your love of goodness because, in part, it was a sign that you weren't broken and desperate for Mormonism.
Bet as Joanna has said there are some things you should think carefully about в and this needs to be done with your head, not your heart. Maybe about a year ago. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. The pressure is mounting for Mormon women to cave in to Western degeneracy, and men are at a loss for what to do about it. I also think he is not used to anyone telling him "no" or going against his opinion. He said that if there is an exception, it is for the individual to obtain through the spirit. I have been known to share though because it gets on my nerves when my friends complain to me about how much money we are making Recently by some pure act of coincidence my hubby ended up with a day off on Labor day.
You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. There is a difference between "I wouldn't want to be with someone who worked these hours forever" and "I am really unhappy and will be unhappy for the next three years. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult. If she can't or won't consider that the church is a lie, you need to move on because this relationship can't go anywhere. If you have children how will they be raised. It's like saying I know how to treat you respectfully buuutt I don't feel like it. Don't fall in love with a doctor. Now I try to put myself in his shoes and he has always had a problem standing firm in any decision so its hard for him to say no. Marriage is simply not an option to me there.
Things have been mostly good, but there are always challenges to deal with. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. What you described, just being in each other's presence, sounds perfect. I'm dating a lovely guy who is in his first year of medical residency. I could never put up with the crap he has to put up with but he could never put up with the loneliness I have to put up with Awww this makes me sooo sad. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers.