Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. Many symptoms of pain and discomfort can only be diagnosed with tests at the hospital. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there.
You insult my husband who is as faithful as they come and does everything he can to spend time with us and to help out. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. We do have cancelled Skype dates and rescheduled phone calls but when I really need him he puts his needs aside. The history of racism and violence is upsetting. This was the biggest one for me. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older.
If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. How will your spouse feel about that in 20 years. I'm the kind of person that believes that it is just tacky in general to break up or end things via text, but that was my only option. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. Always taking care of our two daughters single handedly is. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy.
Seclusion has served to preserve their desirable traits, but it also makes it difficult to gain rapport. I don't want to stress him. Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. I would have to say absolutely NOT!!!!. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. You are a good person and she can see that. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl.