The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. I pointed out the fact that the woman only goes after doctors I knew he hated women like that he was slow to catch on since she was charming and slick as snot. Love is what we do, not what we feel. Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it. If he is luck to be off call during the weekend, I would sleep most of the weekends away to make up the sleep deprivation. Its not only adultry. Certainly not my husband. She sounds like she is worth the extra work.
Much more, since I am having a hard time to conceive, all adds up to my frustrations. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships.
Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down.
Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. I always feel like I am last. Mormonism has a lay clergy, so everyone serves in the Church. I can totally understand. I learned to read by reading the Book of Mormon. It sounds like you have found a good one. There will always be difference between spouses.