I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree. I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. Long story short, everyone is dead on. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. Some of the most wonderful lesbian sex I've ever had was with a TBM girl. That's all we're really saying. That response made her very happy. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. Thank you thank you for writing this blog.
I love my husband with my whole soul. I would never convert. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me.
This opens opportunities for all strong and successful masculine men to gain access to these women. I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. The thing I worry about is the reason that we are together is that I don't want to build my own life. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. I am dating a wonderful man, amazing. Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians.
You will raise the kids by yourself, and he won't help even when he's home because he'll be too tired or feel too entitled to HIS time alone. If you think you are, you might be. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous. The thing I worry about is the reason that we are together is that I don't want to build my own life. And also I thought it was weird she wore some kind of pants that come to her knees under her other pants, but I never asked about that.