I got married to a Mormon woman. How the Japanese Celebrate New Year. There is no way this will work out.
If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. After our first kiss she lets me know she won't have sex with me because she's mormon and we'd need to be married first. They even refrain from tea and coffee. By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us.
Yes, it is bad. This is right for me and for us. If we can say them together, great; if not. I have been dating a doctor for over two years now and we have talked about marriage, as well as some of the challenges his job will entail. The two of us are going on an overnight this weekend. I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe.
She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. But the lies sting some people. I know how much it hurts, and it makes you feel unwanted. Seeing his mom, being the pillar of his family, scares me to think I will not be as strong as her, since I have always been the pampered child since young. They might be disappointed, or overjoyed, or judgmental, or supportive. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are.