You will buy expensive disability insurance, malpractice insurance, and life insurance to provide a snippet of comfort for the great, unknowable future. That is a goal worth fighting for. Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult. Yet another reason I respect doctors so much-their emotional strength. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity.
I am professor, and he is a surgeon in his first year as an attending. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with.
In the end, God is a just God. But those days may be gone. Unless you convert she won't marry you, plain and simple. Most of my female friends work and their husbands don't work weekends so it is hard to have people to hang with. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. My boyfriend is currently in his third year of medical school.
But, you will probably lose. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. Maybe there is wisdom behind some of the peculiarities. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. Chances are you can't though. I have always worked full-time and no employers ever give you any lenience. And also I thought it was weird she wore some kind of pants that come to her knees under her other pants, but I never asked about that. I told him that this wasn't working for me. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon.